SaySo Survivor VII: Spring 2012
SaySo Saturday Update 2012
Health Care Power of Attorney
What is a Health Care Power of Attorney?
A health care power of attorney is a document that allows you to choose a person who will have the authority to make health care decisions for you if you are unconscious, mentally incompetent, or otherwise unable to make decisions.
A health care power of attorney will stay in effect forever, unless you name a new person, or you specify a date for it to end.
Why Do I need a Health Care Power of Attorney?
There may be times that you are unable to participate in making decisions about your health and will need someone to do that. Consider this: You are in an accident and become unconscious. Someone will need to consult with the physicians and consent to your medical treatment AND it can't be you.
If you do not have, or want a relative to make those decisions, you will benefit from having a health care power of attorney or health proxy. This allows you to choose who will make those decisions. They could be decisions around surgery or proceedures, medicines, or next steps to take. The main point is you have the option to name YOUR health care power of attorney and not leave these decisions to chance.
How Do I name someone to be my Health Care Power of Attorney?
Before leaving care, speak with your social worker about "executing a health care power of attorney" document. This document is legal and recognized by the state. Name this person in the document.
Be sure to select someone you trust. It could be a friend or relative or a lawyer. Anybody could be given this authority. The main thing is that the person you choose not abuse this power and will look out for your best interests.
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SaySo is Accepting SRA Applications
Holidays - SaySo Style
During the December Board meeting, SaySo members find an unusual way to celebrate.
This year, Chaney Claus came riding into the meeting on a fully decorated John Deer! (Rudolph wasn't available this year!)
Partnership with the United Way
SaySo has partnered with the United Way of the Greater Triangle to help raise funds for their new initiative to help increase financial stability for foster youths in Orange, Durham, Wake and Johston counties. Funds raised will be used to help match youths' savings as they progress through the financial literacy training and meet goals.
Team Tocqueville (United Way funders group) sponsored an event at Hasentree Golf Course (September 2011) and afternoon tea at the Washington-Duke Inn (November 2011) to help educate participants in the transitional needs of foster youths and how financial stability is a huge obstacle to a successful transition.
Other events are planned for 2012 and beyond to help sustain the program.
Marcella and Chaney speak at the Tocquevill Tea with support from Lauren.
Transition
Transitioning from foster care is not as easy as it seems.
It requires planning and lots of preparation.
The Foster Club has a Transition Toolkit that will help you anticipate the bumps in the road and what you can do now.
Check it out! 
iSAYSO
"iSAYSO because... I matter... and so do you!"
This page is all about you and what you have to say. It includes poetry, stories, raps and testimonials from SaySo members, alumni, and supporters.
Feel free to submit your original work to 
sayso@ilrinc.com
Enjoy and please give credit to those who have been willing to share their thoughts with you. 
A Forgotten Child (Savannah H)
A Return to Love (Marianne W.)
Able Youth Speaking Out (Daniel C.)
NO Fairytale Ending (Keyona R.)
Our Biggest Fear (Marianne W.)
Our History Together (Casey H.)
We Gotta Start Loving (Lisa W.)
Why are Fathers Important? (Donisha A.)
Special Additions
***Contributed by Operation Healthy Family (OHF) co-produced with Level Ground, this song "Place to Place" is dedicated to those foster youths who have aged out of foster care onto the streets homeless with no education or employment. (click the song to see the YouTube video). It speaks about the issues of teens who age out of the foster care system. Four teens featured in the video have recently aged out of foster care and are apart of The Mocking Bird Society a foster care advocacy group. OHF wanted to help shed light on the foster care system and the growing epidemic of foster youth who age out of foster care.
***North Carolina's own Jimmy Wayne grew up in foster care and has become a nationally known country singer. Many of SaySo youths have met him at statewide events. Check out his song called Paper Angels on YouTube about the children named on the Angel Trees found in area malls during the holidays. He has also written a book about this song.
How to get your credit report
Get a Credit Report!
Foster Youths are at HIGH risk of identity fraud!
A new law just passed that required every youth in foster care age 16 and older must have a credit report every year while in foster care! It started September 30, 2011
Click here for a copy of the entire law. The section on credit reports for foster youths is at the top of page 6 under "Case Plan and Case Review System."
Why get a credit report?
This is a great law because foster youths are at high risk of identity theft! While in foster care, any number of people who have access to your personal information (such as social security number and birthdate) can open accounts and run up debt or stop paying bills using your name without your knowledge.
This is a BIG problem when it is time for you to transition to the adult world. Businesses and companies will run a credit check on you before you rent an apartment, get cable, buy a car, open a cell phone account and things like that. If you have bad credit, they can deny you services or ask for a large deposit to cover the cost of the service in case you don't pay your bill.
What will a credit report tell me?
Each credit report (there are three agencies that provide credit reports) will give you a full report. The report will list times when your information was provided to open an account. This will include things like opening an store credit card, a cell phone account, student loan, and things like that. Be sure the information is correct. The new law says your social worker needs to help you understand what the report says and help you resolve any inconsistencies in the report. Resolve this before transitioning from foster care. This is your life so be sure to talk to your social worker about it, understand it, and get your report cleared up early.
How do I get a FREE credit report?
You may go to Federal Trade Commission for a list of FAQ's.
***This online process is only for ages 18 and older. Minors cannot receive credit reports online it must be done in writing. Agencies need to provide proof of guardianship to get a minor's credit report. (See addresses below)
- Go to www.AnnualCreditReport.com
- Select State and click "Request Report"
- Fill out the form - including your Social Security number, date of birth, and so on...
- Click "Continue"
- You are then taken to a page that lists all three reporting agencies - click the check box for all three names
- You will be led through each agency
- You will be able to see, save, and/or print the reports
- You can only get a FREE credit report ONCE per year (or it will cost you) so figure out a good time to do this annually - like your birthday.
The reports will also tell you what to do to resolve any false or inconsistent information.
Credit Reports for Minors:
Requests for credit reports for minors must be done in writing. Be sure to include the name, address and social security number of the person for whom your requesting the report and proof of guardianship.
Annual Credit Report Request Service
P.O. Box 105281
Atlanta, GA 30348-5281.
New LAW! Foster youths MUST get Credit Reports!
How to Find and Keep a Job
(Taken from the “The Pocket Guide to Independent Living,” ILR, Inc.)
Getting a Job:
I. Where to look?
a. Newspapers – Classified Ads
b. Employment Security Commission
- See telephone book for address
- Computer browsing of available jobs in a given area
- Counselors will help
c. Employment Agencies
- Fee is usually required
- Some employment agencies deal only with temporary placements
d. Friends, neighbors, or relatives
II. How to begin to get a job
a. Call, write for, or pick up an APPLICATION
b. Complete all parts of the application
- Use black ink
- Keep it neat
- Spell everything correctly
- Provide complete and accurate information
c. Return application promptly and in good condition (not wrinkled, torn or spotted)
d. Make a follow up call in about a week if you have not heard from the company
Interviewing Tips:
III. Having a good interview
a. Shower, shave (if appropriate), wash hair, and brush teeth before going for interviews
b. Do not chew gum or smoke
c. Dress in clean, neatly pressed, appropriate clothing and clean, polished shoes
d. Arrive at least 5 minutes early (never late)
e. Inform secretary or receptionist of your presence and purpose
f. Greet interviewer politely
g. Offer to handshake only if the interviewer extends hand first
h. Wait to be told to be seated
i. Answer all questions in complete sentences
- Always give honest answers
- Maintain eye contact
- Smile often
- Use proper grammar (no slang or vulgarity)
- Keep answers to the point and in response to what was asked
j. Do not touch things in office or on the desk
k. Keep feet on the floor
l. Try to hold questions until asked if you have any
Keeping a Job
IV. Helpful hints for keeping a job
a. DEPENDABLE
- Report to work when scheduled
- Arrive on time/leave as allowed
- Keep sick time to a minimum
- Call in when ill
- Request time off as early as possible
b. Do QUALITY work
- Do job to exact specifications
- Correct mistakes
- Do assigned jobs completely
- Do not be careless
- Never think that “Close enough is good enough”
- Take pride in doing each job well
c. Maintain a POSITIVE ATTITUDE
- Be cheerful
- Be cooperative
- Accept requests willingly
- Offer positive comments
d. Develop good COMMUNICATION SKILLS
- Learn to express feelings in words
- Describe situations accurately and clearly
- Talk out problems and concerns
Changing Jobs
V. When to change jobs
a. When your hours/pay are not enough
b. When problems at present job cannot be resolved to mutual satisfaction
c. When the work you are doing is no longer satisfying
d. When you have an opportunity to advance with another company
e. When home and work are too far apart
VI. How to change jobs properly
a. Give notice of intent to employer
- Minimum two weeks/Maximum 30 days
b. Leave on good terms
- May need to use present employer as a reference
c. Return all work items provided by employer
d. Give forwarding address so that final paychecks, W-2 forms, etc., can be sent
Gaston County
Gaston County Local Chapter was established in July 2011.
Adult Supporter Contact
Tiyania Shands tshands@co.gaston.nc.us
Randolph County
Randolph County Local Chapter was established in June 2011.
Adult Supporter Contact
Katy Garris ksgarris@co.randolph.nc.us
Phone: 910-274-6196
Meeting Times:
Our local chapter meets the SECOND TUESDAY of each month at 6:30 PM (Our LINKS meeting follows around 7:00 PM)
We welcome youths from surrounding counties as well if you do not have a local chapter.
What we are doing?
For Make a Difference Day, we started a on-going project of collecting clothing and necessity items for both children and youth for when they come into foster care..
We have been visiting local churches and speaking to groups about being a foster parent.
Pitt County
Pitt County Local Chapter was established in March 2010.
Adult Supporter Contact
Shante Carson sacarson@pittcountync.gov
Nazareth & Rowan County
Nazareth Children's Home and Rowan County Local Chapter was established in March 2010.
Adult Supporter Contact
Donna Cagler (Nazareth) dcagler@nazch.com
Tisha Warren (Rowan) twarren@rowancountync.gov
Halifax County
Halifax County Local Chapter was established in March 2011.
Adult Supporter Contact
Kathy Richardson kathy.h.richardson@halifax.nc.gov
Forsyth County
Forsyth County Local Chapter was established in September 2010.
Adult Supporter Contact
Carmelita Burrel burrelcc@forsyth.cc
Durham County
Durham County Local Chapter was established in March 2010.
Adult Supporter Contact
Fantasia Johnson fjohnson@durhamcountync.gov
Craven County
Craven County Local Chapter was established in November 2009.
Adult Supporter Contact
Hollyanne Trombley hollyanne.trombley@craven.nc.gov
Robeson County
Robeson County Local Chapter was established in March 2009.
Adult Supporter Contact
Ghee Johnson gwendolin.johnson@dss.co.robeson.nc.us
Union County
Union County Local Chapter was established in March 2009.
Adult Supporter Contact
Angie Mallard mallard@co.union.nc.us
Our next LINKS meeting will be held on Thursday May 3, 2012 5pm-7pm at Union County DSS and our guest speaker will be Timeka Ruffin. Timeka will speak with us about The College Foundation of North Carolina. It is going to be a great meeting. Hope to see you there!
Alamance County
Alamance County Local Chapter was established in March 2009.
Adult Supporter Contact
Jason Eberly jason.eberly@alamance-nc.com
Crossnore School
Crossnore School Local Chapter was established in March 2008.
Adult Supporter Contact
Maria Russell
Wayne County
Wayne County Local Chapter was established in March 2008.
Adult Supporter Contact
Octavia Muhammad
Orange County
Orange County Local Chapter was established in March 2006
Adult Supporter Contact
Rhonda Reese
Surry-Stokes Counties
Surry-Stokes Counties joined to establish their local chapter in September 2005.
Adult Supporter Contact
Andrea Brandon and Mark Fuhrman
Catawba County
Catawba County Local Chapter was established in July 2004.
Adult Supporter Contact
Sarah Saleet
Onslow County
Onslow County Local Chapter was established in March 2004.
Adult Supporter Contact
LeRae Burroughs
Guilford County
Guilford County Local Chapter was established in July 2002.
Adult Supporter Contact
Sheletha Stewart
Cumberland County
Cumberland County Local Chapter was established in March 2002.
Adult Supporter Contact
Pamela Burch
Wake County
Wake County Local Chapter was established in March 2002.
Currently inactive
Caldwell County
Caldwell County Local Chapter was established in September 2001.
Currently inactive
Mecklenburg County
Mecklenburg County Local Chapter was established in September 2001.
Adult Supporter Contact
Tricia Nielson
Moore County
Moore County Local Chapter was established in January 2001. SaySo's first local chapter!
Adult Supporter Contact:
LeAnne McKoy
SaySo Local Chapters
Local Chapter Information
SaySo is thrilled to have so many local chapters already developed. See the list of local chapters in the navigation bar. Click to see what is happening with the local chapter in your area. Local chapters can submit their news or update their current contact information by emailing localchapter@ilrinc.com We are happy to also include approved pictures.
If a local chapter does not exist in your region, click here to download the Local Chapter Start Up Kit.
Benefits of a Local Chapter
Local Chapter development is important in North Carolina because we have a "state supervised, county administered foster care system." This means that the state advises the services at the county level but that counties are permitted to determine how policies and regulations are governed in their area. What this means is that what one county requires for a CARS (Contractual Agreement for Residential Services) agreement may differ from another county. A local chapter has the ability to discuss such issues with their local administrators to help make decisions that are best for the young people in that county. The State SaySo Board of Directors does not have influence at the county level - but we can sure help get you to the right people to speak to!!
Also, it is easier to have more frequent meetings in a local area instead of waiting for the next SaySo event. Some local chapters meet either before or after the county LINKS meeting. Some chapters are a combination of a county DSS group and a private group home. Any combination can work.
What do I need to start a local chapter?
The interest in starting a chapter needs to come from the young people. One or two is all it takes to generate interest. The SaySo Board of Directors can send a youth to speak with a local group of young people to share what local chapters can do and how they have benefited from such a group. No worries... SaySo will help you through the process. OH.... you also need to select an Adult Supporter and provide that contact information to SaySo. Adult Supporters do just that... support you and the group as it develops, helps get the word out to other young people in the area, and helps to find a central location for meeting. Most adult supporters are LINKS coordinators, social workers, mentors, residential staff, foster parents, and GAL's but it can be any adult who the local youths have asked to help support their goals efforts.
How do we get our local chapter acknowledged by SaySo?
Once you have determined your local chapter membership and have elected your executive officers (such as President, Vice-president, Secretary, Treasurer), send those member names and officers, along with the contact of your Adult Supporter to the SaySo office. A certificate will be generated and mailed to you OR presented at the next SaySo Saturday Membership Conference. All local chapter are publically acknowledged at SaySo Saturday so be sure to attend!
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Come back and visit soon. 
We'll have pictures of lots of events and times when SaySo members are "speaking out!"
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College Students
College Students - Vocational, Community, and Universities
- Try to maintain a regular routine including healthy eating and sleeping habits.
- Start a study group to stimulate your thinking but also make friends.
- Get involved in the FREE activities at your school - even if your are not sure whether you'll like it. You never know.
- Even if you have a s solid plan for a career and future, consider signing up for On Your Way: A planning for your future website that offers a lot of information and interactive features for financial aid, budgeting creating a resume, and a personal portfolio of all your information...with security so you won't loose it.
- Contact SaySo about starting a local chapter at your college. More current and previous foster youths are attending college. SaySo can help you get in touch with young people just like you. The support is essential and SaySo is always getting more information that can help you along the way.
CLICK HERE - For a list of ALL North Carolina Four Year Colleges
CLICK HERE - For a list of ALL North Carolina Community Colleges
CLICK HERE - For a list of ALL North Carolina Vocational, Technical, and Trade Schools
Helpful Documents for New College Students
Preparing for College
Attending College
NC Reach
NC Reach
NC Reach is a state funded scholarship offered for up to 4 years, including fall, spring, and summer school terms. The program funds up to the school’s full cost of attendance after other public funds and scholarships have been applied. NC Reach provides comprehensive student support, including Virtual Mentors, Care Packages, and internships.
NC Reach helps students meet the basic financial requirements they face when enrolled in postsecondary education. The amount of funding students receive is based, in part, on the Cost of Attendance (COA) determined by their school.
Am I eligible for NC Reach?
North Carolina students are eligible for NC Reach if :
- They are legal residents of North Carolina eligible for in-state tuition rates.
- They were adopted from North Carolina DSS foster care after age 12 or aged out of NC foster care at age 18 (must have been in NC DSS foster care on 18th birthday.).
- They are enrolled in one of the 74 North Carolina Public colleges, universities, or community colleges.
- They have not yet reached age 26. Student remain eligible until their 26th birthday.
Visit www.ncreach.org to learn more, apply online, participate in web-based seminars, and connect to state resources to help you succeed in college.
ETV - Education Training Vouchers
ETV = Education for foster youth 
The Education Training Voucher (ETV) program awards grants to current and former foster youth to help pay for college or specialized education. ETV grants are funded by the federal government and administered by the states. In most states, eligible students may receive grants of up to $5,000 per academic year.
The Orphan Foundation of America administers the ETV program for the states listed below. Eligibility requirements and available funding vary by state.
North Carolina ETV
The North Carolina Education and Training Voucher Program is a federally-funded, state-administered program designed to help youth who were in foster care. Students may receive up to $5000 a year for qualified school related expenses. Funding is limited and available on a first-come, first-served basis to eligible students. Applicants must complete the ETV application which includes documentation each semester that is sent directly from the school to ETV confirming enrollment, the cost of attendance (COA) and unmet need.
ELIGIBILITY REQUIREMENTS
1. You must be a current or former foster student who was:
- in foster care on or after your 17th birthday.
OR
- adopted from foster care with the adoption finalized AFTER your 16th birthday.
OR
- entered into a kinship guardianship placement from foster care on or after your 16th birthday.
2. You must be a U.S. citizen or qualified non-citizen.
3. Your personal assets (bank account, car, home, etc.) are worth less than $10,000.
4. You must be at least 18 but younger than 21 to apply for the first time. You may reapply for ETV funds, if you have a current grant, up to the age of 23.
5. You must have been accepted into or be enrolled in a degree, certificate or other accredited program at a college, university, technical, vocational school. To remain eligible for ETV funding, you must show progress toward a degree or certificate.
Click here to start your online application. www.statevoucher.org
Questions for ETV in North Carolina????
Email the NC ETV Coordinator northcarolina@statevoucher.org
Planning for more education?
Planning for more education beyond high school?
- Sign up for http://www.OnYourWay.org : A planning for your future website that offers a lot of information and interactive features for financial aid, budgeting, creating a resume, and a personal portfolio of all your information...with security so you won't loose it.
- Financial aid. Make sure you fill out the FAFSA to apply for financial aid as soon as you can after January 1 of your senior year of high school. You can file the forms you need to at: http://www.fafsa.ed.gov It will take some time to fill out the forms (especially the first year) but the financial reward is worth it.
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Some suggestions for filling out the FAFSA forms:
- Review the form first.
- Read every question before answering.
- Make sure you have all the information/documents needed.
- Get someone to help you fill out and review the form.
- If you are still in FOSTER CARE - Say "yes" to question, which asks, "Are both your parents deceased or are you a dependent/ward of the court?"
- DO NOT put any information about your biological or foster parents in the form.
- Hints for completing the form and answers to common questions can also be found at http://www.finaid.org
- CLICK HERE for "TIPS on how to fill out the FAFSA" ... The tips were created JUST for foster youths.
- Check out the ETV program...http://www.statevoucher.org Click "North Carolina" and apply on-line to be eligible for up to $5000 per year to help you through school beyond financial aide awards.
- Don't forget to sign up for the SAT's. Take it your junior year at least once and again in fall of your senior year.
- Check out a bunch of different vocational and trade programs, which can offer REAL WORLD job training and great salaries. The job market is currently full of needs in machinery, electronics, repair, technology, medical, nursing, teaching, and others that can be satisfied with a certificate or graduation from a two year program.
- You can also visit North Carolina's own college foundation website to find information in regards to applying for colleges, financial aid and other questions that you may have at College Foundation of NC.
- Princeton Review Website is a great resource for anyone getting ready for their college search. Anyone can register to find information on: Colleges, financial aid, scholarships, SAT and ACT prep tests and courses and so much more.
CLICK HERE for helpful information on how ADULTS can help young people prepare for Post-Secondary Education and access Financial Aid
High School Students
High School Students
- Stay in school - you won't regret it.
- If possible stick with a high school diploma, GED's won't earn you as much money as a diploma.
- If getting a GED is a better option, plan to continue your education beyond a GED at a community college or vocational school. Trades are oftentimes earning more money than college degrees right now.
- If you are working and going to school, try to limit your weekly hours to 20 or less. More than 20 hours and your grades will suffer. Not cool.
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SIgn up for On Your Way:
- It's a FREE website with no gimmicks!!
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On Your Way is a way to plan for your future that offers lots of information and interactive features:
- budgeting,
- creating a resume,
- figuring out your learning style, and a
- personal portfolio of all your information...with security so you won't loose it.
- Traditional high school holding you back? Talk to your guidance department about the other options you have:
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Check out the:
- Dual enrollment program (you can get your high school diploma and college credit at the same time through a community college),
- Middle or Early College Programs
- Vocational options, including apprenticeships and internships.
- Review your school transcript...frequently to see if you have enough credits to graduate. It may be worth taking summer school classes to graduate with your friends.
Click here for a Checklist for High School Students of what to do each year to prepare for college.
For You Guidebook & Video
This video and guidebook was written to help youths coming into foster care in NC. The SaySo members who wrote this discuss topics including:
- LINKS and Life Skills
- Support while in Foster Care
- Legal Issues
- Sexuality and Health
- SaySo
Enjoy this gift just FOR YOU!!
Click here to download the Guidebook
Click here to view the video.
NYTD Training for Youth by SaySo
This presentation was created by the SaySo Board of Directors to help LINKS youths understand the purpose and complete the National Youth in Transition Database survey.
Click "Open" and "Read Only" to access the PowerPoint.
NYTD Training Youth by SaySo.ppt
The presentation can also be downloaded and printed as a PDF Document.
NYTD Training Youth by SaySo.pdf
Working with Youth (for GAL’s)
Top 12 list for Working with Youth!
This document is written by youths and GAL administrators to assist Guardian Ad Litems working with foster teens.
Empowerment
Empowerment!
This presentation was created by young people involved wiht SaySo and the Yancey County LINKS Program. The young people from Yancey County have presented this workshop at SaySo Saturday and has given permission for SaySo to post it so other members can use this important information about how to use the legal system and LINKS program to its fullest potential.
Click "read only" to access the PowerPoint
CFT is All about Me!
CFT Is All about Me!
This presentation was created by two SaySo Alumni who attended state sponsored training on the Child and Family Team Meeting process. This presentation informs young adults how to make the most out of these CFT meeting AND keep the focus on their needs.
Click here to view the PowerPoint. CFT is All About Me!
Click Read Only to access the presentation.
For You Guidebook
This "For You" Guidebook was written by SaySo youths as a gift to help you understand what you need to survive and thrive in the North Caroina foster care system.
Download the guidbook and either save to your computer or print a copy for your personal use. It covers a lot of stuff... it's a gift and it's especially FOR YOU!
Jobs & Work Experiences
A job does not always have to be a paid position - but it helps. If paid employment is not available, consider getting "work experiences" that you can put on a resume to help you get a job down the road.
Employers like to see that you are interested in doing something constructive.
How to Dress for Success
You know what they say....
You only have ONE chance to make a first impression!
The way you dress is a LARGE part of that first impression and the ONE thing you have alot of control over!
This booklet, PROFESSIONAL DRESS, was created by one of our founding members, Melinda. She knew a million ways to dress professionally on the cheap!
We share this booklet every year with the young adults selected to participate in the SaySo page program and with our elected Board of Directors.
Click Professional Dress for your own copy of this resource.
Education
Education!
More learning = more earning $$$$$$$
SaySo is committed to helping all youths in substitute care finish high school and get whatever post-secondary education (any education after high school) you want to have the career you choose. At any SaySo event, we'll have information about education but you can start right here.
Click the level of education that most interests you!
Planning for more education beyond high school?
ETV (Education Training Vouchers)
College Students - Vocational, Community, and Universities
Scholarship Info - Foster Care to Success
Housing Information
Housing Resource Information
Here are some documents and websites about housing issues in North Carolina and Nationally.
Documents (all can be found in the "For You" Guidebook):
Beginning Your Search -
Leasing Questions and Needs -
Roommates -
Planning Your Move -
Apartment Checklist -
Websites:
Free Housing Service in North Carolina - just enter the city or area of the county where you hope to live and options will become available.
North Carolina Housing Search - Great resource for affordable housing throughout North Carolina.
Rent.com - Great resource for apartments both in NC and nationally.
Apartments.com - Great resource for apartments and even looking for roommates locally and nationally
Craig's List - Great resource for anything from apartments, roommates, to furniture. They even have a FREE section!
Laws, Rights, and Advocacy
Laws, Rights, and Advocacy
This section will help to outline the rights that youths in substitute care have. It will also include laws and policies relevant to young people AND hopefully you'll also learn how to advocate for yourself.
For instance, laws have recently indicated that before a young person leaves foster care, they may consider completing a document naming someone as their Health Care Power of Attorney. Click here to learn more.
If you find other resources or websites you would like us to link to, please submit your information to sayso@ilrinc.com
Thanks and enjoy!
Click Here for an Empowerment PowerPoint Presentation. When you open it a box will pop-up & click "Read Only". The Power Point will open.
This presentation was created by the young people in Yancey County to help teach other youths ho to advocate for themselves.
Documents related to Laws, Rights and Advocacy in the For You Guidebook
Becoming Your Own Advocate
Your Rights in Foster Care
Foster Care Timeline
North Carolina Websites:
Covenant with NC Children - SaySo is a member of this statewide advocacy organization comprised of member from all over NC interested in issues relevant to children and youth.
North Carolina General Assembly - Find out who from your area represents you in both the House of Representatives and the Senate. Start emailing them so they know what the issues are for NC youths in substitute care.
North Carolina Guardian Ad Litem - The state website for the GAL program. Learn what a GAL is and how he or she can help. Also see
Youth Advocacy and Involvement Office -
National Websites:
Foster Club - Foster youth website full of information, support, resources for all youths nationally
Booster Club of Foster Club - adult supporter website of the Foster Club
The Finance Project - This portion of The Finance Project is focused on the needs of transitional youths and a framework to keep youths Connected by 25.
http://www.hunter.cuny.edu/socwork/nrcfcpp/info_services/lgbtq-issues-and-child-welfare.html "> Resources on LGBTQ Youths in Foster Care - LGBTQ youth in foster care face additional challenges. Explore this site to understand more about the concerns, rights, policies, and practices regarding the needs of these young people.
NCLINKS Program
NCLINKS is the program in North Carolina to assist young adults (ages 13-21) with their transition to adulthood - which means "getting out on your own!"
All the policies about LINKS can be found on this website: http://www.ncdhhs.gov/dss/links/
Here is some Basic Information about LINKS:
- You (the young adult) have to be involved in assessing what you know and need to know to make a successful transition.
- You also have to be involved in writing your transition plan which has goals related to those things you learned in the assessment part.
- You are eligible to receive services to meet those goals if they are related to the SEVEN LINKS Outcomes listed below.
- Every DSS has a LINKS Coordinator (sometimes more than one person share this job) to help LINKS aged youths.
- Every DSS has funding available to provide those services however the amount depends on the county. The DSS also can apply to the state NCLINKS program to reimburse the DSS if you need something that falls within the special funding category. This is not guaranteed funding.
- You can continue your education after high school with the help of ETV and NCReach (see educational page for more information).
These are the SEVEN LINKS Outcomes (the things that will help you make a better transition).
It is the goal of the NCLINKS program that all seven outcomes are in place when you leave foster care.
- You have enough money to meet daily needs (now and when you live on your own).
- You have a safe and stable place to live.
- You have the academic/vocational training in an area of your interest, abilities, and goals.
- You are connected at least five adults outside the foster care system that help provde you emotional support.
- You are avoiding hi-risk behaviors (stuff like, drugs and other substances, violent behaviors to self and others, running away, etc.).
- You are postponing parenting until you are emotionally and financial ready to have a child. This goes for both guys and girls.
- You have access to medical and behavioral health care services, including dental care.
That's a lot of stuff to have ready before you leave foster care but with support from your LINKS coordinator and SaySo, you can do it!
Some hints to help you out:
- Start getting work experiences as soon as you can and save as much as you can.
- If you are having trouble in a subject at school, don't wait - get help or tutoring as soon as you can.
- Think about what career interests you and find out what kind of education you need to be ready for that career.
- Get support from other young adults like you in your LINKS group and SaySo. You are not alone.
- Ask Questions... you are not expected to know everything at this point in your life so you might as well try to get all the information you can while folks are trying to help.
- Participate in your CFT (Child & Family Team) meetings. This is important. See our CFT information so you know more about how to participate to get your need met.
- Attend your court hearings or communicate with the judge by letter if necessary. It is important for the judge to know the person he or she is making decisions about.
Remember most of all...PARTICIPATE IN YOUR LIFE!
Don't let "them" (anyone) make decisions about you without you!
Organizational Chart
The SaySo Organizational Structure continues to change as the organization grows. Your support helps us do just that!
SaySo's ultimate vision is that alumni will continually be added to the administrative team resulting in an organization not only driven by the goals and desires of young people but managed by them as well.
Please download the following Organizational Chart to view our current structure.
Partner Organizations
SaySo Partners
SaySo is very greatful to the following organizations who over the years have partnered with SaySo to help the young people in North Carolina.
Together we have accomplished so much more than we could have otherwise. Thank you for your continued support!!
UNC Institute of Government
Fostering Perspectives Advisory Board
Advocates for Children's Services
Legal Services of NC
NC Kids Guardian Ad Litem Program
North Carolina Foster and Adoptive Parent Association
Covenant with NC Children
National Independent Living Association
NC DSS LINKS Program
GEAR UP NC
Fenwick Foundation
NC Administration of the Courts, Court Improvement Program
NC Stakeholders Board for MH/DD/SAS
Independent Living Resources, Inc.
Workforce Development Institute
Prevent Child Abuse NC
Jordan Institute UNC School of Social Work
Southeast Independent Living Curriculum Advisory Board
National Alumni Network
Accomplishments
Below is a brief listing of the Accomplishments of SaySo:
Conferences
Presented at the annual NC Statewide Children's Conferences
Presented at the NCFPA statewide conferences
Presents annually at the National Independent Living Conference
Participates in Court Improvement Program conferences and seminars
Participated in NC GAL statewide conferences and trainings
Sponsored the 2002 National Advocacy in Action Conference
Trains 13-15 year old foster youths at annual NC LINK-Up conferences statewide
Participated at the IL National Leadership Conference
Speaks annually at all youth conference sponsored by the NCLINKS program
Coordinates annual SaySo Saturday conferences for 200+ foster youths
Keynote speech at statewide Adoption Celebration 2002
Meetings & Trainings
Participates in continuing education training for Family Court Judges
Assists with MAPP training for Foster Parents
Spoke at Adoption/Abandonment meetings in Greensboro.
Participates in annual attorney and social worker training at UNC-CH
Participate in trainings with the Center For Family and Community Engagement
Publishing’s
Provides articles and book reviews for Fostering Perspectives
Wrote a PR campaign on NBC-17 (Superbowl Sunday) to recruit foster families for teens
Contributed towards Advocates for Children Services brochures on Rights/Responsibilities of Foster Youth and Independent Living
Developed a youth friendly CFT brochure for the Center For Family and Community Engagement
Did an ad on TV, posters, radio announcements to recruit foster and adoptive parents (Charlotte)
Believe in a Child ad on TV, posters, radio announcements to recruit foster homes for teens(Raleigh)
Publish 6 annual newsletters (archived) for members and supporters
Became the March 2004, Everyday Hero for Fostering Families magazine
Developed a SaySo presentation format for members to use at speaking engagements
Contribution to others
Contributed to the formation of the National Alumni Network(NAN)
Contribution to Social Services for Pregnant and Parenting Teens
Provided information on health issues related to foster teens
A sponsor for Child Abuse Vigil
Contributed to the SE IL Curriculum Advisory Board
SaySo in Government
Wrote a letter/met with Gov. Hunt
Met with Hillary Clinton in Washington, DC
Initiated a week for members to participate in the House, Senate and Governor's page programs (Annually since 2005)
Other Accomplishments
Coordinating a statewide Make a Difference Day Project for all foster children (Annually since 2004)
Provided the award recipients for National Youth of the Year (2002 and 2003) through the NILA
Provides regular speeches at regional adoption celebrations throughout North Carolina
Master of Ceremony for a Youth Fashion Show promoting teen adoptions (Greensboro)
Two Board members elected to the National Independent Living Association (NILA) Board of Directors
Promoted the development of 23 local chapters in NC
Attending school and going to college at record numbers!
Media Involving SaySo Youths
Spectator Magazine Durham
People Magazine, January 2003
Fostering Perspectives (twice annually)
Independent Weekly - Durham
Charlotte Observer
UNC-TV feature on Child Abuse, April 2002
Fayetteville Observer
Burlington Times
Jamestown Press
WRAL For the Children
Raleigh News & Observer
NBC-17 Eastern NC
Fostering Families Magazine
Carolina Youth Alliance
Personal SaySo Member Accomplishments
Julia C. - 2006 Foster Club All Stars
Makeisha W. - 2005 National Youth of the Year
Melinda M. - 2003 National Youth of the Year
De'Von M. - 2002 National Youth of the Year
SaySo History
The following is a brief timeline of the LIFE OF SAYSO!
July 9, 1997: Discussions begin
ILR met staff from the Child Advocacy Institute (CAI - now known as Action for Children) at a state sponsored meeting. Nancy Carter from ILR mentioned that if any organization needed youths to speak at their functions to call ILR. Michelle Hughes from the CAI called. CAI had received a Kellogg grant to start a youth advocacy organization. CAI needed access to interested youths. ILR had been using youth speakers at Youth Days Summer Conferences who were already speaking out about changes needed for foster children.
April 17, 1998. A joint meeting of state and youth stakeholders was held.
Over 75 people attended the meeting in Burlington, NC. Adults outweighed the number of youths so the group was divided: adults in one room, youths in another to enable a safe environment for youths to speak freely. Youth concluded that a youth advisory organization was needed, however the youths wanted to be more than just an advisory council. The first name for SaySo was COFFEE which stood for Coalition of Friends and Family Educating Everywhere, but later changed to SAYSO, Strong Able Youth Speaking Out, which youths felt was more representative of who they are. This began a two year process of establishing the mission, by-laws, belief statement, policies, youth membership criteria, and adult advisor responsibilities to help govern the organization. It was a painstaking process but the founding members stayed focused and established the foundation which still exists today. During this time, the Kellogg grant functions were subcontracted from CAI to ILR. At the conclusion of the two year Kellogg grant, NCDSS included the operation of SaySo in the ILR contract. This contract arrangement continues.
March 4, 2000. The first SaySo Conference was held in Burlington, NC.
The SaySo Youth Board of Directors stressed to overwhelming group (this time, more youths than adults) that SaySo is focused on learning to speak out constructively about the needs in the foster care system. Youth have continued to learn to not whine about the problems, but be part of the solution. By doing this, youths learn to speak in a manner that allows others to respect and take SaySo seriously.
Spring 2000: SaySo’s first legislative action.
The NC Chaffee budget was earmarked to be thrown out of the state budget which meant all independent living activities for NC would cease to exist. A legislative position paper created by SaySo and spread to legislators by a network of support with the Covenant for NC Children’s helped to keep this funding active. The Chafee funding continues to keep SaySo and other LINKS project in place.
March 2003: SaySo becomes a non-profit organization with the support of the Fenwick Foundation. Frank Phoenix of the foundation becomes known as the Grandfather of SaySo. The Fenwick Foundation continues to sponsor lunch at the SaySo Saturday Annual Conferences and dinner at the Board of Directors Orientation.
SaySo Saturday Annual Membership Conference:
This conference is held annually on the first Saturday of March to commemorate the first SaySo Saturday and the continued mission to work to improve the substitute care system by educating the community, speaking out about needed changed, and providing support to youth that are and have been in substitute care. All members and alumni are invited to attend. Each year a new Board of Directors is elected to serve the membership, local chapters are commissioned, and the achievements of the year are acknowledged.
SaySo Administrative Team
SaySo Administrative Team
The Administrative Team are employees of Independent Living Resources, Inc. of Durham, NC but work either part-or full-time to perform the functions for SaySo, Inc.
(Click to name to send an email to that person)
Executive Director - Nancy Carter
"I have been working with teens since 1983 but I'm not old
and I'm not done! The young people of SaySo keep me young at heart! I am honored and continue to be jazzed by the motivation, creative ideas, and accomplishments of our young people. Let's keep it going SaySo! So many young people need you to thrive and become the "strong able youth" that is growing inside. Share your resiliencies and help other silent youths find their voices."
Program Coordinator - Lauren Zingraff
"I am honored and excited to be a part of the SaySo Team. SaySo is such an awesome community of empowered young people from across the state of North Carolina. It is very inspiring to see all of the positive changes that SaySo continues to bring to the substitute care system. "
Assistant Program Coordinator (Alumni Position) - Chaney Stokes
"I have been apart of the SaySo Team for many years now. I enjoy advocating for youth and making a difference in peoples lives. I desire to obtain my Master's of Social Work and go on to do great things for the substitute care system."
SaySo Regional Assistant
SaySo Regional Assistant (SRA)
SaySo can hire up to six SaySo Regional Assistants (SRA), one per region. If every region does not have a SRA, SaySo may hire an At-Large SRA from another region already represented to assist the organization. At no time will more than six SRA's be employed. SRA's are paid alumni, who reside in their home town and assist the SaySo Administrative Staff as needed to promote local chapters, assist at events and trainings, and expand SaySo membership in their community. SRA's are paid at either an hourly or daily rate to participate in meetings, speak to group, or be the voice of youth at a planning meeting. SRA's are paid monthly for task completion only.
Rodney Alston (Region 4)
"I have been involved with Sayso for 10 years now but for what seems like forever. Initially, Sayso was a great initiative for me to be a part of, but it turned into much more. I transitioned from member, to local chapter President, and moved-on from a youth advisor position to SaySo Regional Assistant. In conclusion, what started out as a positive initiative, has managed to turn itself into much more...an ever-growing network for the success of myself and others. And I look forward to being apart of that for some time."
Nicole Lyght (At-Large SRA)
"As a SaySo alumnus, I have taken on responsibilities that allow me to demonstrate my passion for youth advocacy. Being a SRA allows me to utilize resources that not only can help me, but others as well. I get to enjoy traveling with the board members and, on occasions, I travel to speaking engagements and important meetings that will further the purpose of SaySo. Not to mention, I get PAID to do what I feel so strong about, advocating for those who may not be able to advocate for themselves. I would encourage those with passion, a sense of responsibility, and a strong voice, to become a SaySo Regional Assistant. I LOVE IT!!!!!!!"
WANT TO BE A SRA?
Job Description
SRA will provide regional support for SaySo to promote and enhance a variety of SaySo activities:
1. Local chapter development,
2. Speaking engagements (if representing SaySo) for adult/youth trainings & other LINKS events (must receive prior approval from SaySo),
3. Staff SaySo exhibits at conferences,
4. Increase overall SaySo membership in assigned region.
5. Participate in activities outside of region by SaySo permission or invitation.
Compensation and Evaluation
• SRA will be compensated for completed tasks (provided at a daily or hourly rate).
• SRA will create objectives for each event with feedback provided by event contacts.
• Mileage and expense forms submitted monthly. Forms will be in Excel and training will be provided by SaySo
• SRA is a one year opportunity. Reapplication is encouraged however that application will be evaluated in comparison to current applications, not on seniority.
• If a SRA is hired for a subsequent year, they may be eligible to receive a raise.
• SRA’s will be evaluated annually unless otherwise stated in a probationary contract.
Position Requirements
1. Reliable transportation (own vehicle preferred).
2. Age: 18 - 26 years.
3. High school diploma or GED (if involved in additional educational training). Some college training is preferred.
4. Must be familiar with the SaySo organization, mission, and programming.
5. Must have email and cell phone.
6. Must respond within 24 hours to messages/emails.
7. Access to computer utilizing MS Word and Excel.
8. Competence in Word and Excel (can provide simple training if necessary)
9. Currently is, or was in foster care as a teenager.
10. Agrees to background check and has no criminal record that would preclude working with foster youths or Division of Social Services
11. Must attend a two-day job training facilitated by Independent Living Resources, Inc. and SaySo, Inc.
12. Attend quarterly one-day meetings at SaySo/ILR office facilitated by SaySo Staff (4 days per year)
13. Attend SaySo Saturday, Regional LINK-UP (1), and SaySo Orientation. (5 days per year)
14. Provide all required reports to SaySo monthly (12 hours per year/1 hour per month reporting time)
15. Participate actively and constructively in all work activities such as publish something on the website at least quarterly.
Application Process:
1. Applicant documentation will be reviewed.
2. Applicants will be interviewed by SaySo Staff and ILR staff is needed.
3. If approved for the position, a criminal background check will be conducted prior to applicant being offered the position.
4. Assuming the criminal background check is satisfactory, position will be offered.
If interested, send the following documents to:
SaySo, Inc., 411 Andrews Road, Suite 140, Durham, NC 27705
1. Completed application (see below)
2. Current resume
3. Letter of intent
4. Written reference by someone who supervised you personally and/or professionally.
Questions?? Email SaySo sayso@ilrinc.com or call 800-820-0001.
SaySo Adult Supporters
The SaySo Adult Supporters (click name to email the person)
The Adult Supporter is normally a social worker or primary caregiver who supports their youth board member(s) by providing transportation and chaperoning (if necessary) to attend SaySo functions. SaySo, Inc, will provide traveling expenses if necessary to the adult supporter to facilitate youth participation.
Zakiya Bell-Rogers - Buncombe County DSS
"SaySo is a wonderful organization that supports our beautiful youth in foster care. I am honored that I am an Adult Supporter to this group of future leaders."
Mary Anne Cox - Brunswick County DSS
"I am honored to be a part of SaySo and look forward to supporting the youth in the challenges they take on this year."
LeAnn McKoy - Moore County DSS
"I strive to further assist youth who have experienced substitute care to reach their full potential. Each youth has strengths that can be magnified by encouragement and support. I hope to continue to be that support."
Kathy Richardson - Halifax County DSS
"I have learned a lot about SaySo over the last 5 years. I feel that it is a wonderful support system for youth in foster care. My goal is to support these young people in their goal to improve the lives of children who may experience out of home care."
Jacquelynn Trueitt - Johnston County DSS
"I believe SaySo is a wonderful way for youth that have been in substitute care to voice their thoughts and follow through with making a change. I am happy to be a supporter for these youth and hope to continues to grow. God bless."
Kawanna Woods - Children's Home of Iredell County
"My goal is to offer support and guidance to youth in substitute care. I am committed to making sure I give my time, ideas, and transportation to ensure the youth I sponsor can attend SaySo Events. I am excited about what is to come from the 2011-2012 SaySo Board and the organization as a whole."
SaySo Adult Advisors
The SaySo Adult Advisors (click name to email the person)
SaySo Adult Advisors are nominated by the Youth BOD, interviewed by BOD, and must be voted unanimously by the BOD to serve a two year term. Up to six adults provide guidance, supervision, transportation, and help open political and administrative doors to enable the Youth BOD to meet their goals. Adult Advisors support the SaySo Administrative Staff by assisting at organizational functions, workshops, and business meetings.
Jackie Brown - Sipes Orchard Home, Houston Transitional Living Program Coordinator
"I continue to love working with young people from across the state. As long as they'll have me, I'll be here."
Carmelita Burrell - Forsyth County DSS
"SaySo is the greatest resource available to teens in foster care. SaySo provides its members with enriching, positive opportunities that help enhance a teens foster care experience. SaySo empowers teens to become more knowledgeable about issues that are important and that affect them. SaySo connects the pieces of the puzzle, with the puzzle being the foster care system. SaySo gives you a voice, SaySo is your voice. Make a wise choice and get involved."
Shante Carson - Pitt County DSS
"I hope that SaySo continues to grow as an organization. SaySo has had such positive impact on so many young people. I would like to do whatever I can to help SaySo be successful and accomplish all of its goals."
Tiyania Shands - Gaston County DSS
"Last year was the first year I participated in a SaySo event and it was a wonderful experience. SaySo gives youth a chance to have their voice heard and gives them control to make decisions, SaySo makes youth strong and helps them to grow in their own personalities. SaySo is a wonderful organization."
The SaySo Team
Welcome!
Here you will meet the SaySo YOUTH Board of Directors, SaySo Staff, Adult Advisors, Adult Supporters, and Regional Assistants!
Now, meet your SaySo Team!
(If you would like to send a message to any of the Board members listed below, please email sayso@ilrinc.com. )
The SaySo Youth Board Of Directors (BOD)
The SaySo Youth Board of Directors (BOD) is an elected body of young people who meet the eligibility for SaySo membership. Each of the six regions can elect up to three representatives to the BOD to serve a one year term. Elections are held only on SaySo Saturday, annual membership conference held the first Saturday of March. The BOD is the only voting branch of the SaySo Team (adults and SRA's do not have voting power). Potential BOD members are nominated and voted upon during the Regional meetings held at SaySo Saturday. Elected BOD members are commissioned in June at SaySo Orientation. Attendance is mandatory.
The BOD is also comprised of two Executive Officers of SaySo who are serving a two year term: a Co-Chair, and either a Secretary (elected in even-numbered years) or Treasurer (elected in odd-numbered years). Executive officers are elected at SaySo Orientation by the newly commissioned BOD. At most, the BOD can have 20 members.
Region 1 - Western North Carolina (Mountains)
David R: "My life for me has been hard but I learned to take my challenges in my life and speak out about them and not hide. I think SaySo is going to give me this opportunity."
Kelley T: "My hopes for SaySo would have to be that it turns me into a professional young adult who knows how to speak publicly and carry myself well in a board room. My contributions to SaySo is my personality trait of being social, which will help me interact and voice my opinion while also advocating for other youth."
Macey W: "I would like to help SaySo by contributing my outgoing personality. SaySo helps youth everywhere. It is very important and very needed for foster care. My hopes are that it will expand and be known everywhere."
Region 2 - South Central North Carolina (Charlotte Area)
Shaquanda G (Sergeant-At-Arms):
Katie Q: "SaySo is a very beneficial program for foster youth because it allows our voice to be recognized. My goal is to open a local chapter within the next six months. I am a very stubborn person, which I think is a good contribution to SaySo. If I see an issue that needs to be addressed, I won’t quit until something changes."
Region 3 - North Central North Carolina (Triad Area)
Corae H: "Not everyone will have the same problems, that's why I will contribute my ability to be open-minded to SaySo. That way each and every individual needs could be met."
Tressina J: "Hi, I am Tressina. I am an interest reader and rising singer. I am a high school student at Atkins High School of Pre-Engineering. I love animals and would love to go to college to pursue my career."
Patrick Y: "By using the voice that SaySo provides me, I want to try and keep families together and keep the brothers and sisters together."
Region 4 - Central North Carolina (Triangle Area)
Erica F (Secretary): "My hopes for SaySo is that it will expand not just in a youth level but also adult level. I would like to contribute my time, honor, dedication and love. I can help SaySo by participating and speaking out for others and myself. I love SaySo. Its changed me as a person and a foster youth. I am proud of my transition."
Mahdi K: "I am a junior in school and I love to meet new people and I hope to impact other people lives while representing SaySo."
Damonique L (Treasurer):
Marcella M (Co-Chair): "I enjoy SaySo. I love being an advocate for my region and for foster youth."
Region 5 - North Eastern North Carolina (including the Outter Banks)
Shanita D: "I hope to contribute my time, effort, and dedication to SaySo. I want to help expand and educate others about SaySo to the point where it is as well known as McDonalds, Red Cross and other organizations."
Titianna G (Co-Chair): "I am a freshman in college and I have served as a Senate page for a week. I encourage you to try it."
Sarah H: "I am a sophomore in high school. I like to write poetry, hang out with my friends, and anything that has to do with art expressing myself."
Region 6 - South Eastern North Carolina (Down East)
Kalyn D: "Turn your wounds into wisdom." (Oprah Winfrey) This is a powerful statement for me. I hope it inspires you too!"
Roman R: "I am a student at East Carolina University and I am majoring in Social Work. Hopefully as I am going through my college experience, I can contribute my service, time, money, and perspective to make SaySo grow even better than it has in previous years."
Click the following to learn more about the Adult Team Members of SaySo
SaySo Regional Assistants (SRA)
Home Page
Mission & Belief Statements
The Mission of SaySo is:
"to work to improve the substitute care system by educating the community, speaking out about needed changes, and providing support to youth who are or have been in substitute care."
All SaySo activities, whether at the state or local chapter levels, support this mission statement which was written in 1998, the year SaySo was founded.
The following Belief Statement was written in 1998 by Keisha, one of our founding members. Keisha compiled all the ideas of the founding members into this one statement. The SaySo Organization continues to uphold these beliefs today.
"We, strong able youth, believe in educating the community about needed changes in the foster care system. As strong able youth, we believe the voices of youth matter. So it is time to listen. We believe that if provided adequate materials we can achieve anything. As strong able youth, we uphold the idea that by expressing ourselves verbally, we are informing others of real life situations that may give a new meaning to life. We believe we have the right to be treated equally and fair and that our voices can make a big difference. We proclaim the love of children as being a primary factor for SaySo's continued existence. As youth, we believe we should have a right to better health care and easy access of monies for our needs. We hold the expectation that every board member is a unique individual, who can and will learn. Provided with a sufficient amount of time, effective teaching and a positive learning environment we will accomplish our goals."
Alumni
This page is under construction.
It's the perfect opportunity to share your ideas with us of what you - the ALUMNI want on this page.
Send ideas to:
Resources
Education
www.statevoucher.org
This website is for the ETV program (Education Training Voucher), and this resource awards grants that are funded by the national government to youth who are or have been in foster care to support them in paying for higher education.
www.ncreach.org
This website is for a resource called NC Reach, and it is a state funded resource/scholarship that provides funding up to a school’s entire cost of attendance after all other funding has been applied.
www.onyourway.org
This resource is for youth who are or have been in foster care to help them attain higher education, make more income in the future, develop a plan to enhance their future life, and keep all their important information in a place where it will not get lost.
www.cfnc.org
CFNC stands for the College Foundation of North Carolina, and it is a resource for all students across North Carolina that helps them plan for college, apply for college, and pay for college.
Federal/National Resources
www.findyouthinfo.gov
This is a federal website that helps people construct, maintain, and enhance youth programs. The website contains a broad collection of information, from the local and national resources available to up-to-date youth-related news.
www.nrcyd.ou.edu
The NRCYD (National Resource Center for Youth Development) is a national branch of the Department of Health and Human Services Children’s Bureau, and its goal is to provide excellent services for youth who are or have been in substitute care, as well as other high-risk situation youth, through the states and tribes.
www.youthmovenational.org
This is a national organization led by youth, and its goal is to enhance services/systems that help positive development by using the voices of those who have had experience in different fields such as child welfare, mental health, and juvenile justice.
www.fosterclub.com
FosterClub is generally a national network for youth or young adults that have been involved in the foster care system.
Transportation
www.zipcar.com
Zipcar is a car sharing service for those who want to be environmentally friendly. It costs a little less than 10 dollars an hour to reserve a zipcar. Gas is free, too! visit www.zipcar.com to find a location near you.
Presentations
Presentations!
The presentations in this section were all developed and written by SaySo youths. We welcome you to..
view them,
save them to your computer,
use them with groups...
just share them with others!
If you would like SaySo to do a presentation or panel discussion with your group, email sayso@ilrinc.com or call Lauren Zingraff at 800-820-0001.
Groups sponsoring a SaySo presentation are asked to consider a stipend for each youth involved in the presentation and travel costs as needed.
Current presentation available on this site include:
Working with Youth (for GAL's)
NYTD Training for youth by SaySo
If your youth organization has created a presentation and would like it posted to this website, please email the presentation to sayso@ilrinc.com for approval. Your organization will be given credit for its work.
Did You Know…?
This section is all about information you need to get the resources, services, and information to put your best foot forward as you get out on your own.
Of course you know SaySo will be here so you're not really "on your own." We have an alumni chapter too and our website will have answers to many of your questions.
So check out the areas most youths in NC want to know. If you have suggestions for other topics, write to sayso@ilrinc.com
How to Dress for Success (on a budget)
Newsletters
SaySo Newsletters
SaySo can produce up to six newsletters per year. All of SaySo's newsletters archived here. You are welcome to download them to your computer or print as you need for your group or other events.
Please contact us if you would like to receive these newsletters by mail. All SaySo members receive this newsletter.
If you are a member and have not been receiving your newsletter, please email (saysomembers@ilrinc.com) or call us (1-800-820-0001) with your current mailing address.
Each year is a different volume with issues 1 - 6 published in: January (1), March (2), May (3), July (4), September(5), and November(6)
2012 - Volume 13
Issue 1 - January
Issue 2 - March (not yet published)
Issue 3 - May (not yet published)
Issue 4 - July (not yet published)
Issue 5 - September (not yet published)
Issue 6 - November (not yet published)
All previous issues until 1999 can be found in their corresponding year:
March - This was SaySo's first newsletter and the only one written this year.
1998 - The Year SaySo was formed. No newsletters
About Us
SaySo, Strong Able Youth Speaking Out, is a statewide association of youth aged 14 to 24 who are or have been in the out-of-home care system that is based in North Carolina. This includes all types of substitute care, including foster care, group homes, and mental health placements.
Founded in 1998 by a stakeholder group of older youths in care, adult caregivers, and adult professionals, SaySo has been recognized with respect in North Carolina and nationally as a youth driven advocacy organization. Our founding members felt youths needed to be more involved in advocating and policy development for young people in substitute care. For a more complete history, see SaySo History .
In 2002, with the support of the Fenwick Foundation, SaySo became an incorporated, private, non-profit organization with approved 501c3 status. (A copy of our IRS status can provided as needed.)
Our FEIN is: 71-5478864.
SaySo, Inc
411 Andrews Road, Suite 140
Durham, NC 27705
919-384-1457 (local)
800-820-0001 (toll-free)
News & Events
SaySo News - Click any of the NEWS items listed to the right for more information.
SaySo Events are all year long so you are bound to find something you want to do! 
Events are sponsored by the NCLINKS program and are FREE unless otherwise indicated.
Scroll through the list of EVENTS below for program descriptions. If an event is open for registration, click "register" to be taken to the registration page.
Youths who are eligible to be a SaySo members are encouraged to attend.
Adults are also encouraged to attend with the young people they support and to learn from others. All registered adults are expected to participate fully and be positive role models to the youth participants.
Note: If you have created a profile, the registration page will automatically insert your information. Please review it for changes.
Annual Events (SaySo holds these events Every Year!)
SaySo Saturday: This is SaySo's annual membership conference as well as SaySo's birthday party and alumni reunion). It is always held the first Saturday of March. The day is full of workshops, opportunties to meet new people and share ideas. We also draw names for birthday gifts (door prizes) and have regional meetings so the next Youth Board of Directors can be elected. The next SaySo Saturday will be March 2, 2013 at Guilford Technical Community College in Jamestown. Registration will be available after January 1, 2013.
It’s My Transition: This one-day seminar is for older youths (16+ years of age). Three seminars are held annually across North Carolina. Each seminar will focus on two of the seven LINKS outcomes. REGISTER
LINK-Up Youth Conference: This one-day life skills conference is for youths ages 13 - 16. Workshops and O-LINK-Pic games are facilitated by the SaySo Board of Directors and Adult Supporters. Two conferences are held annually - usually one in January and one in August.
SaySo Page Week: One week during the legislative session is open for SaySo members to serve as legislative pages in the NC Senate, NC House, and Governor's Offices. This week normally occurs in the early or late spring depending on the needs of the session. This is a selective program and interested SaySo members need to begin the application process in November. All applicants must be in high school and in good standing -remember you will miss a week of school but are expected to complete your school assignments. Selected youths will live in Raleigh in Host Homes who have been screened and instructed by the SaySo program. Pages will be paid according to the respective Page Programs. SaySo will pay the Host Homes. Interested youths should call the SaySo office (800-820-0001) or send an email (sayso@ilrinc.com). See more
SaySo Survivor: Weekend leadership retreat for SaySo members to explore their resiliencies and move from surviving to thriving. See more and register.
SaySo Community-wide Events (community citizens are encouraged to participate)
SaySo's Make A Difference Day: Held annually on the fourth Saturday of October, this largest national day of service is sponsored by USA Today and the Newman Foundation. Traditionally, SaySo collects duffle bags to distribute to foster youths of all ages around the state. This action has prevented many young people from carrying their possessions in trash bags. Can you imagine the humiliation of carrying your belongings into a college dorm in a trash bag? Of having that bag break and your personal items fall to the ground. This day of service provides a simple way for anyone in the community to assist this fragile population. In addition to service, SaySo coordinators a Youth Mentor Day for professionals in the community to facilitate workshops with teens on topics related to everyday life.
Events only for elected Board Members and their Adult Supporters
SaySo Board of Directors Orientation: Three-day mandatory team building orientation for newly elected and returning Board members and their adult supporters.
SaySo Board Meetings: All BOD members, Adult Advisors, and Adult Supporters to the BOD should register to confirm their attendance. REGISTER
June 2012: Orientation register
August 2012
September 23 - 24, 2012
December 2012
January 2013
March 2013